Read this slowly — because this is how it happens. Most divorced dads don’t disappear all at once. They disappear inch by inch. From always being last. From silence. From never being asked how they’re doing. From giving everything until there’s nothing left for themselves. This isn’t weakness. It’s learned self-erasure. (Shoutout to Jason Wilson — The Comprehensive Man — for calling out this pattern with power and clarity.) 🧠 Neuroscience: Dr. Bruce Perry writes: “The brain will choose familiar